Some people forgive others for the sake of continued presence or for the possibility of acceptance and relationship.
In some cases, this is a mistake.
When someone is repeatedly making you feel unsafe, cutting them off is a kindness. It does two things:
It preserves your space and energy.
It prevents them from having multiple chances of doing stupid things that could eventually land them in jail.
If you can choose to not be in the presence of someone making you feel unsafe, make the choice to remove yourself (or have them removed) from your life.
You are not required to put up with such behaviors because of social norms, religious or cultural pressures, or family status.
I made this video this morning because of an interaction I had with a neighbor lady. There’s been some stuff happening that I haven’t discussed publicly. She was kind enough to give me a heads up. The information she provided only confirmed what my instincts have already said about the matter. I removed many of the details of that situation from this video. It is heavily edited, leaving you with the main point.
When I finished making this video, I made another to discuss the topic on a deeper level.
If it helps, you can always buy me a coffee. ☕️
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